Its All About ME!!!

This space is for stuff about me; no kids, no husband, no nuthin but me! Well, you will see an occasional reference and rambling related to others, but all in all, one big narcicist spot for me!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Feeling Stressed About Time

So, this school year I have been feeling (hmm, I just had a typo and wrote reeling. Good one!) stressed out, feeling as if there just is no where near enough time for me to do what I feel like I should be doing with the kids. And I kept thinking why do I feel this way.

So today, actually having nothing pressing to do on my agenda (I am avoiding Mt Laundry and the beckons from fur balls and dust bunnies with no guilt today!) I sat down to create a loose agenda. And that is when it hit me; no wonder I feel stressed!

I started off by writing my list of daily things I'd like to do with the girls and things that must be done daily between school and bedtime:
  1. Play Outside - 30 min
  2. Free Play - 30 min
  3. Some Planned/Guided Activity (Nature study, art history, Math games, etc) - 30 min
  4. Chores - 15 min
  5. Snack - 15 min
  6. Dinner - 30 min
  7. Homework - 15 min
  8. Read Aloud - 30 min
  9. Bath - 30 min
  10. Get Ready For Bed - 15 min

If you add up the time, and I was actually being skimpy on the times I allotted, that is 4 hours. Hmmm, The girls get home around 4:15 and bed time is 8pm. Already we are at least 15mins short! And, if you add in Girl Scouts, Dance Lessons, Watching Other Kids, Cooking and Cleaning times ...... I am coming up short on time! I really do not think that this is an unrealistic idea of what I'd like to accomplish, do you? Ugggg.

Well, I am contemplating how to fit my agenda into the time allotment. I'll keep ya posted on the outcomes!

2 comments:

The Doodle Family (As Authored by Kimberley) said...

Oh, I am so there with you. I have been trying to figure out why I have been feeling so overwhelmed the past couple of weeks. First I thought it was just because I was recovering from the holidays but then I too realized that it was because of time. I sat down trying to create an agenda as well and realized that I was not only short on time but short on creating a balance.

Trish Dawson said...

sorry to say it doesn't get any better UNTIL they can drive! I hated all the homework the kids had in elementary school that took up so much precious evening time.