Cranky Old Lady's Halloween Complaints

Handing out Candy and Drinking beer lead to a few Cranky old Lady complaints :)

One parent actually complained to my neighbor that he was not prepared enough for his kids! "Sir, you need to be more prepared. My kids were having a hard time waiting." You got to be kidding me!! When one of the first trick-o-treaters knocks on your door at 6pm, and you all set to go? Especially when you both work full time jobs and you are constantly trucking your teenage kids around? I think your kids can wait a minute while I am diggin' out the free candy to hand to them!!!

One parent was pulling her two kids (around age 3 and 5, I'd guess) in a wagon. OK, I live in a neighborhood with long driveways, and no sidewalks. I can see a wagon to help cart the kids. But, these kids NEVER got out of the wagon. She pulled them up to the steps, and made *me* come to them to give them candy. And then, I grabed two pieces from my bowl, one for him and one for her, and the boy tried to grab BOTH of them from my hand. When I said that the other one was for his sister, he got angry.

After the second beer was gone I waited for a lull in kids (not a hard thing, we had few kids this year compared to last year!) and then went inside to get my beer. Well, I set my bowl down on the porch (just not thinking, really) and came out to find one kid grabbing a whole huge handful. She put back some when I caught her, but protested that her friend took a handful too. And when I looked in the bowl, all the mini M&M's (for the little kids) were GONE. Greedy kid took them all. AND the parent with them apparently thought it was OK to do this!!

There were a few others, but by the fourth or fifth beer I did not care so much. And it was just fun to call my friends in CO or Livonia and harass them some more.

Kids these days, I'm telling you. And parents - they are worse!!!

Cranky Old Lady signing off.

Finding Ideas For My List

As of today I have a grand total of 64, scratch that, 65 things to do on my 101 items in 1001 days list. I am not great at math, but even *I* recognize that I am a tad short of the 101 things! I just cannot seem to find List-Worthy items for this.

I know some of you would have absolutely NO problem writing down 101 things to do. But I am not a list maker, so this is new territory for me. These are supposed to be "unordinary" things, or at least I am making that criteria. So I would not put my daily tasks, or errands etc. on this list. This list is for larger tasks and projects. And in truth, some of the items are long term projects, like me saving $20 a week from babysitting so I can go on the Wild Women Weekend, or having a monthly night out with just Bill. These things cannot be accomplished until the end of the 10001 days. Hmmm, slight flaw in my plan? Eh... I'll just have to count the things I am working on in the list too.

Hey - turns out I have quite a few things I am working on:

1. Decorate wood Doll house
2. Organize basement
3. Begin regular nature study each weekend
4. Save $20/week
5. Hand make one item for each family birthday
6. Organize laundry room
7. Deep clean one room a month
8. Have monthly night out with Bill

Still, I am a bit short on my list! Better keep thinking of those ideas.

Bill Bento

Apparently Bill has been the talk of lunch time in his office. He only has 30 mins for lunch, and because we are frugal as well, we pack his lunch almost every day. (Except for a long running Thai Thursday tradition he managed to start.) Since he has been working long before the girls started school, and thus I became turned on to Bento style lunches, I have recently made some changes in his lunch habits.

I have always cooked one extra portion of dinner and then packed it for his lunch. Just a simple way to save time, and provide him with something much better than frozen meals! Apparently not many people do this, and that alone was cause for some interest. But this summer I finally bought him a plate for his food to be heated up on in the microwave. (I hate reheating in plastic!) Apparently when you plop your food onto a plate the same food becomes more appealing and interesting to the onlookers!

Well, I also started packing more bento style lunches for him. I think that has thrown the crew into hyper drive! He comes home virtually every day and has some story to tell about how his co-workers are jealous and think we eat well. Maybe, but I think it is a combination of presentation and simple home cooked meals!

Lucky Bill!

(contents of Bill Bento: Pot roast (from a locally & humanely, albeit not organic, raised cow)with ketchup in one container, and horseradish in another. Butterfly shaped biscuits in a silicone cup - Bill, not me, made them with the girls! Other side is potatoes and carrots from our garden, a container of (homemade) strawberry jelly for the biscuits, and some leftover mini-M&Ms to help clean out last year's Halloween candy!)

Another 101 thing down!

So, I had the idea to create a fund for all Girl Scouts at the girls school. I proposed it loosely to the person in charge, and she "love love love love" s the idea! So, I officially wrote it out and sent it out to other people in charge in the hopes that this will get off the ground.

Another of my 101 things in 1001 days down!

Little Treasures

Last night Lauren found a book she made last year in school; she left it on the counter and mentioned something about me not reading it lately. Truth is, I forgot about it.

It was a hard-bound book that was made in class for a Mother's Day book. She drew and colored all the pages, and wrote the text. It is titled, "My Mother Is Special Because..." Inside is a list of all the everyday things I do for my beloved family on a daily basis ... I love her, I cook for her, I do laundry, I do dishes, I clean (that could be debated!) the house, I tuck her in at night, I give her kisses, I let Mulligan out, I play with her, & I am nice.

A whole 6 months has gone by since she made this for me, but it brings tears to my eyes more today than the day I first read it. Partly because it is SO very precious, but mainly because it shows that those mundane, trying, never ending, countless things I do for her are appreciated. (Either that or I am so uninspiring otherwise that she had nothing else to write!)

I hope I "inspire" her (and Annika) that there is great value in being an ordinary person living their life to the fullest. I'd rather be ordinary me sharing my everyday moments with those I love, than be someone living in the public eye unable to share a walk in the park with my kids. And I think my family likes it better that way too.

$100 Christmas

Last year I tried to talk Bill into doing a $100 Christmas, but he could not wrap his head around it. OK, so Christmas is in 2.5 months, I need to begin the leg work now.

With the state of the economy being so shakey, maybe this year will be the year he agrees to spending $100 for Christmas gifts!

Check one item off my 101 Things list

So, I have finished the Pioneer Outfit for Lauren's doll, Barbara. It is a mini version of the Halloween outfit I made for Lauren. Check off my first item from my list!

I also made a mini quilt for the Doll house, and plan on doing some more to decorate it for fall. The girls play with the furniture some, and with their Calico Critters or Littlest Pet Shop dolls often. Lauren and I started decorating the house a year ago, but we both lost interest. So I am hijacking the project and I have LOTS of Waldorf inspired, and just plain Kay inspired ideas to make it homey and inviting to play with.

So, I am on my way to fulfilling two more things on my list; decorate the doll house & make one handmade gift for each birthday. And yes, in this instance double dipping is allowed!

Pictures will follow, but probably not until after the birthday celebration.